Are you miserable? Partner: Define misery.
me : What?
Partner: Define, what is misery? What makes a man miserable?
me : A feeling of being deprived of something you want is misery.
Partner: Okay. Define want.
me : What?
Partner: Define what do you mean by want.
me : want is want. I want a cup of tea, that is my want.
Partner: Do you mean want is need? always?
me : pretty much. Almost always.
Partner: Wrong.
me : then?
Partner: Want is not need. Want is what my neighbor have, but I don't.
Partner: Want is what I could have had, but I don't.
Partner: Want is what i should have had, but I don't.  ¶ 9:45 AM